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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
Let me introduce you to today's guests.
The sweetest celebrity couple,
Park Joon Hyung and Kim Ji Hye!
(The comedian couple, Park Joon Hyung and Kim Ji Hye)
Ji Hyo and Mina of TWICE!
(Ji Hyo and Mina of TWICE)
Rapper HANHAE!
(The handsome rapper, HANHAE)
(He's handsome.)
How long have you guys been married?
- We've been married for 13 years. - 13 years?
What do you do when you fight...
or when you have conflicting opinions?
Do you make jokes to make up with each other?
In the early years of marriage, couple fight over petty things,
- which leads to a bigger fight. - Right.
But since we've been married for 13 years,
we understand each other and fight... No. I mean,
- we let things slide. - You still fight?
- That's scary. - It's normal to fight...
- due to lack of understanding. - "I'll still fight you."
"I understand you."
We often fight in a car on our way to somewhere.
To lighten the mood,
I play music so that we can just listen to it.
Suddenly a song...
Among Urban Zakapa's song,
there's this song entitled, "I Don't Love You".
Was it a coincidence,
- or did you play the song? - It's a true story.
I just turned on the radio, and the song was playing.
And even before I knew it, I was looking at Joon Hyung.
It was so funny.
So I filmed ourselves...
and posted the video on social media...
- since it was a funny situation. - That's right.
People loved the video.
- They could relate to it. - Exactly.
We lip-synced the song.
Oh, you posted a video of you lip-syncing the song.
Please show us how you did it.
We prepared this...
to show everyone, but...
I need you to imagine the situation.
- She took a mic out quietly. - As if it was scripted.
(Excited)
- Imagine that we just had a fight. - They had a fight.
(She's immersed in the emotion.)
It looks as if she's singing.
(Honey,)
(I am tired now.)
(The song...)
(is reaching its climax.)
(Wailing)
(Laughing)
(Her husband is starting to get immersed in the emotion.)
(They're good.)
(I don't want to say sorry)
(Or beg for your forgiveness)
(I really don't want to)
(They express their emotions through their facial expressions.)
Ji Hye, you're so good.
(I'll try it too.)
- I see why it drew attention. - It was so funny.
You two look great together.
- TWICE... - You released a new song.
Tell us about your new song.
- The song title is "YES or YES". - "YES or YES".
You have no choice but say yes.
- Only one answer is expected. - Exactly. That's the theme.
And it's an exciting song.
Let's listen to the song.
(Cheering enthusiastically)
(Heart pounding)
("YES or YES" by TWICE)
(Choose one of these, yes or yes)
(Cheery and bubbly)
(The irresistible confession song)
I like this song too.
- "YES or YES". - Oh, yes.
I usually pose like this when I eat drumsticks.
"Yes?" All right.
"Yes?"
HANHAE.
I see why you were chosen as the best boyfriend figure.
You've never been rejected in your life, right?
Whenever you asked a girl out.
It's funny...
that I have a success rate of 100 percent.
(He has a success rate of 100 percent.)
That's really funny. Gosh.
(He throws a tantrum for no reason.)
Since I'm very timid,
I confess my love to someone only when I'm sure...
that she likes me too.
That's what I said in the interview.
But the article said, "HANHAE has never been rejected by a girl."
And people left comments on the article like...
"I get it, but he's not that handsome."
I read some comments like this.
Shall we hear HANHAE rap...
to see his charms?
Hello. It's nice to meet you all.
(Everyone, are you ready?)
(Here I go!)
(That's cool.)
(He raps fast without taking a break.)
(When people see it, they say that I'm too sentimental)
(Feeling the rhythm)
They'll try to find it, but they can't
Thank you.
(It was very powerful.)
Should I just put it here?
- He's good. - It was amazing.
We have three stories as always.
Show us the keywords please.
The keywords are "I'm Too Handsome",
"Uncomfortable Cohabitation",
- and "He Makes My Blood Boil". - "He Makes My Blood Boil".
It's "Uncomfortable Cohabitation".
Hello. I'm a man in my 50s, and I live in a country house.
In our large yard, our puppies run around.
It's so nice. In a small room, our cats are playing.
In the room across the hall, there are puppies.
In the room next to it, there are more puppies,
and in the room next to it, there are also puppies.
My house is full of dogs.
The total number of the dogs and cats in my house is about 60.
(60 cats and dogs)
(They're actually surprised.)
- My family live with them. - My goodness.
- My house is full of dogs. - Exactly.
This is because of my wife.
"Oh, dear. Poor thing. This one is blind in one eye."
"If we don't keep it, who else would take care of it?"
Of course, it's worthwhile to adopt abandoned dogs and cats.
I know it's a very good deed.
But the problem is... "You shouldn't poop here."
"Gosh. Seriously. There's poop everywhere."
(Imitating a dog's bark)
- She's good. - Well, can you all...
- She's so good at imitating a dog. - I was surprised.
I need you to do it with me just like dogs bark all together.
(Everyone imitates a dog's bark at the same time.)
(The realistic sound of 60 dogs barking)
(Shyly imitating a dog)
Can you imagine life in a house...
filled with the smell of dog poop and the noise of 60 dogs barking?
That's unbelievable.
"Honey, we can't keep them here anymore."
"Let's give them up for adoption."
"Gosh. What are you talking about?"
"They mean everything to me."
"Without them, I have no reason to live with you."
- My goodness. - Is she serious?
My life is worse than a dog's. I'm completely tired now.
Please listen to what I have to say on Hello.
(Please be on my side.)
Wasn't it so noisy when we imitated the dogs for a moment?
There were only one Jindo dog...
and one cat.
(Imitating a dog's bark)
(He makes an unusual sound.)
- It's a country dog. - I see.
You can hear them from a distance in the countryside.
(The country dog barking from a distance)
(He's good.)
Ji Hyo and Mina, do you guys like puppies?
I don't have any pets since my parents said...
they were too busy raising me and my siblings.
But I like playing with my group members' puppies.
We say the same thing to our children.
Our children asked us to let them raise...
- a dog or a cat. - Kids love pets.
My daughter sent me photos of dog breeds she wanted to raise.
So I said, "I am already raising these kids."
And I sent a photo of her and her sister.
"I'm raising these two kids."
- What did she say? - That's a good solution.
If you think about it from the husband's perspective,
his wife chose to raise the pets,
but he had no choice but let her do what she wanted.
- It must be stressful. - They won't be here, right?
- 60 dogs and cats... - They'll be here.
(Meaningful)
- Really? All the 60 dogs and cats? - 60 dogs and cats?
Please come out.
(Who is struggling because of his dogs and cats?)
It'd be funny if puppies slide down the slide.
I'm Kwak Yong Ryul, Gangsan's dad, and I'm from Geoje Island.
(Gangsan's dad?)
- Is it your dog's name? - Yes.
Gangsan is the oldest one.
You love dogs this much, but it's hard as there are too many, right?
- Yes. - Do you really have 60 dogs?
- Geoje Island... - It's not that I have 60 dogs.
It's the total number of my cats and dogs.
- I see. - What's the ratio of them?
- I have 46 dogs... - You have more dogs than cats.
- and 12 cats. - 46 dogs.
- 12 cats? - I have 58 cats and dogs.
When did you start raising so many pets?
We started with one pet.
And then Cream had babies since she is a female.
Also, we brought abandoned dogs from the streets.
The number of our pets increased slowly at first, but it started...
increasing exponentially in 2015...
since we appeared on a TV show, which we shouldn't have.
That's what worries me the most right now.
People thought, "Oh, we can leave our pets at their house."
- So... - After they watched the show?
Many people abandoned their pets in front of our house after that.
They abandoned their pets in front of his house.
It was a side effect.
Then are you here to tell people that you won't accept any more pets?
We won't adopt any more pets. We'll give our pets up for adoption.
My wife seems to have reached her physical limitations.
Also, we have money issues. We've reached our limitations.
He's here because it's stressful. Don't leave your pets to him.
Don't say, "Oh, I should send my dog to his house in Geoje Island."
- Don't be like that. - She's right.
"I thought he had 60 pets, but he actually has 58 pets."
"I'll help him fill up the number."
Can't you give up your pets for adoption?
I told her that we should do that many times.
But my wife said she got attached to them while treating their wounds,
and so she couldn't send them away as if they were objects.
So I asked her a childish question.
- "Choose between me and the pets." - I see.
- "Me or the pets." - "Me or the pets."
She chose the pets.
Have you ever thought, "Am I worse than dog?"
- That thought crosses my mind. - Yes.
(I always feel that way.)
Tell us the problems about raising 58 cats and dogs.
I'm a tutor at an academy.
- You're so good with words. - Indeed.
You explained every details. It's TMI though.
- Too much information. - Right.
I understand.
Since I've been a tutor my entire life, it took me one year...
to drive nails using a drill. I even had my nose bleed.
Did you build a dog kennel by yourself?
Yes. Our dog kennel takes up the whole yard.
Only our dogs and cats stay downstairs.
And my family and I stay upstairs.
- Your dogs and cats use downstairs, - Yes.
- and you use upstairs? - In your house?
While eating upstairs,
I often find pet hair in food.
(He takes pet hair out of his mouth.)
- Gosh. - It happens a lot.
You said your house is full of dog poop.
- When we open the window in summer, - In summer...
we can smell it from upstairs.
It's so bad that a person with a weak stomach feels sick.
- Is it that bad? - Yes.
You have to clean the dog poop every day, right?
I clean it every day, and it takes two hours.
You spend two hours to get rid of dog poop every day?
It takes two hours in the morning.
And I need to clean the floors again before going to bed...
to get rid of the mess they made during the afternoon.
(Getting rid of dog poop is such hard work.)
Let's meet his wife. Hello, ma'am.
- Hello. - Hello.
Not a lot of people adopt so many abandoned pets for many reasons.
We'll applaud you for raising 60 pets.
- Thank you. - My goodness.
We're grateful towards you,
but your husband must be a little disappointed.
Why would he be worried?
It's not like I can abandon all my pets to just live with him.
You're raising 60 pets because you want to.
You chose to do so, but don't you think it's hard for your husband?
It's harder for me.
I'm more stressed out than my husband is.
Of course. What's the hardest thing for you?
I wake up at 6am and check my pets' health condition.
I make eye contact with them and give them a kiss.
And then I begin the battle against dog poop.
I clean inside of the house and the yard, give medicine to them,
yell at them, and mop the floors.
I finish all the morning chores between 9am and 9:15am.
Then I go upstairs and see my husband sitting at the table.
- Really? - Her husband.
Yes. He's waiting for breakfast.
I make breakfast and eat with him.
Then I go back downstairs to organize things...
and run to the veterinary clinic.
I check on the pets who got surgery...
and consult with the vet. On my way back home,
I stop by dozens of spots to feed stray cats.
(She even feeds stray cats too?)
- So... - Stray cats...
- on the streets? - That's right.
They wait for me. Among a lot of cars passing by,
they can recognize my car. They wait for me.
Right. But if you work all day long to take care of your pets,
you probably have a lot of health problems.
I have fractured my wrists.
I wondered how often I washed rags, it turned out I did it 100 times.
(100 times)
- Every day? - I wash rags about 100 times.
- You wash and squeeze it. - Exactly.
Also, I developed a back problem not long ago.
I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis that is operable...
only if I get hospitalized immediately.
You do all the chores despite your health problems.
- Yes. I do all the chores. - Exactly.
Are you here because it's hard to wait until she makes breakfast?
We misunderstood her.
We thought you helped her, but she does all the work.
That's correct.
- My goodness. - That's not what we expected.
People moved to our town...
hoping for a quiet, peaceful life in the countryside.
They complain how they can't sleep because of the smell and noise.
- Because of the noise. - Your neighbors complain.
Some of them even pushed me while we were arguing.
Is it that serious?
However, when I take a neutral stance,
my wife says that I don't side with her.
She gets upset, and we end up fighting.
It happened only recently.
It's not that we've receiving complaints constantly.
Also there's only one person who complains about it.
Since you take care of 60 pets in the same place,
you probably have limitations. Haven't you considered...
giving some of them up for adoption and raise the rest more efficiently?
I've been giving my pets up for adoption.
But whenever the new owners have a problem with the pets,
they call me.
They send the pets back to me. I send one pet to someone,
- but they send me back two. - The next day?
- When you send 1 away, 2 more come? - Yes. It's out of control.
Yes. It's out of control.
Did something special happen...
that made you take in abandoned dogs?
When the dog gets old and becomes difficult to take care of,
people leave the dog in front of our house.
I take the dog in my arms...
and promise myself to save it.
Sometimes, the dog survives.
- It is... - You feel rewarded.
more rewarding than anything in the world.
I feel a sense of duty.
(I'll protect you.)
I want to do something others can't do.
I really want my husband to understand me.
When she saves a dying dog,
she feels...
very rewarded.
How do they actually live with 60 dogs and cats?
- Right. - You must be curious.
- I am. - We have a video. Let's see.
We're outside of their house.
(The couple and the animals' house)
Where is the fence?
- You made that? - That one?
- It's so pretty. - Her husband made it?
- It looks like a kindergarten. - It's so cute.
It's really cute.
(They're filming us.)
They're so cute.
Oh, my. Did you paint it too?
There they are.
How cute.
- The dog is dressed. - That's Saweol.
(Three dogs)
- Atom. - Atom.
You must have built the deck too.
(At the end of the balcony they built themselves...)
(is another door.)
(Barking)
There's another door inside.
(Crowded)
Oh, my.
(It's full.)
I thought the house would be bigger.
There are some in the room too.
(It's crowded with dogs outside the house.)
(What about the inside?)
- That's a room. - That's a room.
- This is the first floor? - Yes. The living room.
(The living room is full of pet supplies.)
Oh, my.
(Dog Room 2)
The whole first floor is for dogs.
Oh, my.
That's a room for cats.
(Are there people living in this house?)
Oh, my.
(My lovely babies.)
(They're exhausted after watching the video.)
My goodness.
(Shocked)
(The abandoned dogs and cats have taken over the house.)
I had imagined your house...
to be a lot bigger.
But it's actually just big enough for you two.
And it's full of animals.
I'm a bit surprised.
When you live with around 60 animals,
it's natural that your house becomes pretty dirty.
- But your house is so clean. - It's very neat.
That's why my wife is sick.
- Does she clean the whole house? - Yes.
Do you know all their names by heart?
100 percent.
(100 percent)
- What? - All of them?
- 100 percent? - Seriously? All 60 of them?
Mimi, Nana, Bomi, Dari...
(Mimi, Nana, Bomi, Dari, Jindalrae, Minami)
(She's listing all their names.)
Although my husband is an English teacher,
I don't like English very much.
I've given almost all the dogs Korean names.
You don't like either English or your husband very much.
Yes, that's true.
(I'm so lonely.)
Today we have...
- two of the dogs here. - Really?
It's Gangsan and Hyanggi.
- They're adorable. - Gangsan.
Gangsan.
(Squealing)
- This is Gangsan. - Gangsan.
Gangsan.
(She gets up to see her dogs.)
My baby.
- My baby. - They're so cute.
- Look at Hyanggi. - She's shivering.
They're so cute.
(Hyanggi is shivering.)
- This is... - Hyanggi.
Hyanggi.
I rescued her a week ago.
From a dog factory.
- A dog factory? - What was she doing there?
She was giving birth continuously.
- Oh, my. - This baby?
I thought she was a baby,
but the vet said she was about seven years.
Despite her age, she was forced to keep giving birth.
She was locked up in a cage,
and I rescued her. They didn't want to give her to me,
but I paid them a lot of money.
You paid them to take her away?
I begged them to give her to me.
Thank you.
I'm holding Hyanggi and...
(Breathing)
(Hyanggi is not in a good condition.)
- She breathes heavily. - She breathes heavily.
Her lungs must be bad.
(Poor dog.)
Her health is pretty bad.
Gangsan is amazing.
- He's wearing a taekwondo uniform, - He's protecting Hyanggi.
and his uniform says, "Dog Master".
(Cute uniform)
He's a dog master.
(Dog Master)
Dog master.
What tricks can Gangsan do?
- He likes to play with a ball. - A ball.
Gangsan, go get this ball.
(Gangsan, go get this ball.)
(Ignoring)
- Gangsan. - Get the ball.
(Cute)
Get the ball.
(Your mom bragged about you.)
(He's not interested.)
Gangsan.
(I'm not interested.)
- He's too excited. - Gangsan.
You should understand.
Moms are like this.
We hear all kinds of things on "Animal Farm".
(All pets are talented.)
Once...
a dog was supposed to be able to speak.
But only its owner can hear it.
That's right.
There have been many stories we couldn't air.
(All parents brag about their children.)
(There are so many interesting things here.)
Hyanggi is very timid.
- Did you see that? - She stays close to you.
She's leaning against me.
I can't look her in the eye.
Her eyes...
- Her eyes look so sad. - They look so sad.
(Her eyes look sad.)
- Oh, my. - She's scared.
She's suddenly looking at the camera.
Slowly.
Her eyes look so sad.
Don't you feel so grateful to his wife?
If you can't take care of the dog well, please don't start.
Of course. You shouldn't.
My heart aches. Dong Yeob, please take over.
I feel so sad.
You were startled, right?
He's not a bad person. It's okay.
(Their friendship is always strong.)
(Stop fighting.)
Things are not going well for you. Earlier,
- we understood you. - We understood you.
But after seeing the two dogs,
we feel so much sympathy for them.
You're losing your ground.
You need to make your point well.
She gets 10 chickens from the supermarket.
- Chickens? - Five in each hand.
And she boils them.
I think, "I'll get to eat something good today."
But she brings all the food downstairs to the dogs.
One day, I saw...
chicken soup in a dog's bowl.
So I ate it.
There's no difference between the dogs and me.
Since we got many dogs,
we haven't spent enough time together.
When something happens to our dogs,
we miss family events.
We can't afford to attend them.
Do you have children?
Do you have any children?
Our daughters are both in Seoul.
- They don't live with you? - No.
I can't give up on my wife,
so I'm begging my wife one more time on this show.
But our daughters seem to have already given up.
- They sometimes need their mom... - Of course.
regardless of their age.
- Of course. - But...
my wife says they're all grown up and doesn't help them.
It sometimes frustrates me.
(What are we to you?)
(They must feel hurt.)
Your husband thinks he's not being treated well.
What do you think about that?
We're humans. We have arms and legs. We can do whatever we want.
My husband can have fun without me.
He works out and does everything he wants.
(For her, dogs come first.)
But dogs...
Some animals can't do anything without me.
- I have to support them... - Ma'am.
We all know that you're doing great things.
But from your family's perspective...
I do feel sorry for my daughters.
They sometimes call me and ask me to comfort them.
But it's usually when I'm at the vet's.
Especially when it's an emergency.
Then I forget about it...
and call back about a week later.
I feel bad when that happens.
- You do? - Yes.
You must feel a bit bad...
about neglecting your husband too.
He can take care of himself.
- Still... - He does everything he wants.
Still, he wants to be your priority.
Let's say you make chicken soup.
You could say, "Honey, come eat this", and feed the dogs.
He's a grown-up. He should be more understanding.
(This is why her husband feels so lonely.)
Still, do you think...
He's the dogs' dad.
- Dads should love their children. - Does he...
have to feel a sense of duty like you...
just because he's your husband?
- That's the biggest problem. - It's my job.
I'm doing things other people can't.
(I think I'll press the button.)
Even if you don't take them in,
can't you send them to a shelter?
I've tried it before.
I have.
I told them I'd pick up the dog later.
But even before the time was up,
the dog was gone when I went back.
I was so surprised. When I asked them...
where the dog went,
they said they'd already euthanized it.
After that, I don't trust shelters anymore.
The dogs are not safe there.
Hyanggi is snoring so loudly.
She's very comfortable right now.
Dogs think I'm a waterbed.
(Dogs think she's a waterbed.)
(Yeong Ja is a waterbed.)
Her snoring is getting into the microphone.
She seems to be feeling better.
(It's time to say goodbye to Hyanggi.)
Her eyes are like that.
She doesn't want to go.
Did you see that?
Just let me leave the studio.
I can't let her go.
(We don't want to say goodbye.)
(Please get better, Hyanggi.)
(Goodbye, waterbed.)
One of their acquaintances is here today.
Let's talk to her. Hello.
We met during rescue activities.
I'm living with about 20 animals right now.
- In a house? - In a villa.
If you live with 20 animals in your villa,
don't your neighbors complain?
I have four dogs,
and the rest are cats. So it's not that noisy.
Cats are pretty quiet.
Do you understand her husband?
60 animals are too many.
It's understandable why he'd feel unhappy.
Also, considering their age,
they should think about their financial situation.
That's right.
- What'd be the best way? - What could be the solution?
I think that finding good homes for the dogs is most important.
After that, the couple will be able to spend more time together...
and fight less.
That's the best solution.
How many dogs should you have in order to love them equally...
in your opinion?
Please be honest.
30 to 40 dogs.
(30 to 40 dogs)
(Excuse me?)
- I will be able to take care... - Do you really think that?
- of those dogs. - Do you think you will be able...
to look after 30 to 40 dogs without wearing yourself out?
It's my goal to find new homes...
for about 20 dogs.
I give lectures as well.
I try my best to support the family.
She must be embarrassed...
because she suddenly talked about her financial contributions.
Did you pay for the dogs before she worked?
I thought she would have savings...
from the money I gave her.
I didn't know that the hospital fees for dogs are so expensive.
They are expensive.
In a month, how much money do you spend on the dogs?
I think that it is about 2,000 to 3,000 dollars.
- You use that much on the dogs. - For hospital fees?
It depends on which treatments the dogs need.
We won't be young forever.
We need to prepare for the latter years of our lives.
Why would you worry about that?
(She has a strong sense of duty.)
If we have a garden, we can grow our vegetables.
We won't need a lot of money.
What if you get sick?
- Your health... - My country will take care of me.
There is a good system, so I am not worried.
(Please change my wife's mind.)
Please tell us how you want to live with your wife.
Mount Jiri is two hours from our home.
I want to there with my wife.
If I hear about a good restaurant, I want to go there with her.
She doesn't have time.
I left home one time because she asked me to do so.
- You left home. - You listen to your wife.
You listen to your wife.
- She asked me to leave home. - She asked you to leave home.
- I stayed away for five days. - That's pretty long.
- Really? - Did you really ask him to leave?
I can't leave with the dogs.
The family was so insistent...
that I recently went to get a treatment.
(What treatment?)
What treatment?
- Mental health treatment. - I see.
I wondered if I have a problem.
The test results showed that...
I have a strong sense of duty and responsibility...
as well as depression.
- What? - Depression.
- You have depression? - Yes.
Did you know about this?
It's a recent development.
There is an illness she originally has.
(What does she originally have?)
Six years ago, she was diagnosed with liver cancer.
That's why we moved to Geoje Island.
(Yet she acts that way.)
We moved to Geoje Island so that she can recover.
Then she got sidetracked. Instead of resting,
she began to show a sense of duty.
I am afraid the cancer might come back.
I don't talk about it,
but I feel anxious about that.
(Don't overexert yourself.)
(Don't get sick, Mom.)
- We didn't know about this story. - We understand him better.
He must be really worried about his wife.
(It's a big worry.)
Aren't you worried about your health?
I think I was given the second life.
That's why I don't put a lot of importance in my life.
It was only in the past that I obsessed over living.
My dogs listen to my worries.
They give me a sense of connection and energy.
It's better than any amount of money.
(Doesn't she see how her family is worried about her?)
I am impressed with her husband.
When he moved to Geoje Island,
he put aside his friends and his career.
He moved for your health alone.
You were his everything, but the dogs took you from him.
You should think about his sense of loss.
(He always thinks about wife...)
(because he wants his wife to be healthy.)
Say what you want to say to your wife.
I respect my wife...
for being so nice to the dogs.
Park Hae Won is an amazing woman.
However, I hope she will show...
her amazing side to me and our daughters.
Tell her how much you love her.
I love her a lot.
My goodness.
I hope that you understand that it is not how I feel.
I will be thankful if you find joy...
in joining me on my mission.
I love you.
She won't change her mind.
It will be impossible to persuade your wife.
I think you should persuade...
people who abandon their pets.
- That would be faster. - That would be faster.
Don't think of them as a family only when they are cute.
Don't abandon them just because they develop...
sickness, blindness, or Alzheimer's disease.
(Why would you do that to your family?)
Please be responsible until the end.
That's right.
- Don't abandon them. - Right.
I hope this episode will teach people something else.
If you want to raise a dog,
you should consider...
- adopting from a shelter. - That's a good idea.
(The dogs await people who will give them love.)
I definitely think it's a worry in her husband's perspective.
I hope that you can let go of the idea that it has to be you.
Perhaps it isn't appropriate,
but I recently watched a movie that left an impression.
Thanos said that Titan fell...
because of overpopulation.
- Ji Hye, please stop your husband. - I am sorry.
I shouldn't have said anything.
I am very worried about him.
You need to live long...
so that you can love the dogs for a longer period of time.
How will the animals live...
if you suddenly collapse?
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2... - 5, 4, 3, 2...
(Ringing)
- Stop. - A lot of people voted.
It sounded as if 60 dogs were barking.
(It sounded as if 60 dogs were barking.)
Let's see the result.
(The result)
(The last digit is 9.)
(A lot of people voted.)
How many votes did the worry get?
(What's the result?)
169 votes.
(169 votes)
"I'm Too Handsome".
Hello.
I am a 40-year-old who is tired due to my looks.
Women go, "Gosh, look at him. Look at his shoulders."
"He is my type! Do you have a girlfriend?"
Ever since I was little, I was popular with girls.
It's because I have broad shoulders, impressive height,
and fists that can take down a bull.
You may think I am full of myself,
but it's a big worry for me. I am...
(I am...)
I am a woman.
(That's unexpected.)
What?
(No way.)
When I walk down the street...
"Look at that person. Is that a man or a woman?"
When I go to the restroom...
"This is a women's restroom! Get out!"
I am tired of explaining myself every single time.
"I am not a man. I am a woman."
"Are you joking? Are you really a woman?"
"Why is your chest so flat?"
People say all sorts of things.
What does it mean to be feminine?
I want to clear up this misunderstanding on Hello.
I am a woman. That's the worry.
(It must be upsetting.)
Have any of you been misunderstood...
- because of your looks? - How about you, Joon Hyung?
I have never been misunderstood,
but I have gotten picked on very often.
However, this happened once.
People might criticize me for saying this.
Celebrities search their names.
I did the same and saw a question that went,
"Doesn't Park Joon Hyung resemble So Ji Sub?"
(What is he saying?)
I didn't write it.
Someone said loudly, "I will kill him."
I am sorry.
Ji Hyo, we think you have...
the perfect looks.
Ever since I was little, I had distinct double eyelids.
People often saw me as a foreigner or a mixed-race child.
- That makes sense. - It's understandable.
Whenever I went to Myeongdong with my family...
There were many tourists in Myeongdong.
That's right. There are more tourists these days.
People suddenly talked to me in Chinese,
Japanese, or English.
It happened very often.
You have exotic looks.
For most people, this isn't a big inconvenience.
However, the person who sent us the story has a big worry.
That's why she visited the show. Please come on out.
Hello.
(Who is tired of getting mistaken for a man?)
[VIU Ver] E388 Hello Counselor "I’m Too Handsome" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
(She appears in a mask.)
(Ahn Mi Sook)
- Goodness. - Please hold her hand.
(Impressive height)
(Broad shoulders)
She showed up in a mask.
She will remove it now.
- Are you ready? - Yes.
All right. Please remove the mask.
(What does she look like?)
(All eyes are on her.)
(She feels awkward and embarrassed.)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, I am a woman in my 40s...
from Daejeon, Ahn Mi Sook.
- Welcome. - Welcome.
You look cool.
Thank you.
- Do you get mistaken for a man? - Yes.
I work as a manager of a cafe.
A customer offered to introduce the cafe on her blog.
When I looked up the post, she had written,
"The middle-aged man is very nice."
- Are you serious? - Yes, I am.
I can look it up again.
When I go to the restroom,
women scream.
There are men's restroom and women's restroom, right?
One time, men followed me...
into the women's restroom and became startled.
- Really? - They thought you were a man.
My goodness.
They followed you without thinking.
The same thing must happen at a sauna.
When I go to a sauna,
I pay at the counter, right?
- That's right. - Then...
the owner stares at me.
I go, "I am a woman." I tell them first.
- You identify your sex first. - That's right.
- It happens all the time. - They might give a key for men.
- That happened many times. - You have gotten a key for men.
- That's right. - You should go,
"Forget it. I will check out men's sauna."
Seriously.
I have that thought every day. I am curious.
(I have that thought every day.)
She is curious.
Let's say you got the key and went to the women's sauna.
How do people react?
They always scream.
- Do they scream? - They scream.
You must go, "I am a woman."
I take off my pants and go, "I am a woman."
(She must have been frustrated.)
My goodness.
How do you react whenever you hear those words?
Sometimes, I laugh about it.
When I was young,
I went, "Are you blind or something?"
You were annoyed.
In the past, I swore and such.
I was young.
You were annoyed.
One time, I went to volunteer at a senior wellness center.
They said to me,
"Young man, you are handsome."
I showed them my bra strap,
- but they didn't believe me. - You showed them your bra strap.
They touched my chest.
(The grandmas checked in a mischievous way.)
The grandmas wanted to check if you are a woman.
It must be stressful.
Since when did this happen?
My looks began to change when I entered middle school.
One time, I took a picture with my friend...
at a school retreat.
My friend's dad saw the picture and went,
"You are too young to date."
- He thought you were a boy. - He thought you were her boyfriend.
My friend...
received a severe beating.
- Is that the picture? - Yes.
- You are tall. - You are the tall one.
- You are tall. - You were a tall student.
It was taken at a school retreat.
- I was in middle school. - You were in middle school.
You were a tall student.
(This is even more confusing.)
- Is the person wearing a cap a man? - Both of them look like a man.
You are the one in a denim jacket, right?
Yes, that's me.
It's no wonder you got misunderstood.
I am boyish.
I don't know if it would be okay to say this.
You say it's a worry,
but you style yourself this way.
You make yourself look like a man.
Maybe that's why people mistake you for a man.
I have grown out and permed my hair.
I have worn heavy makeup.
However, short hair looks the best on me.
- My friends say the same thing. - That's understandable.
It's a style she likes.
You shouldn't think about what other people will say and go,
"I will show them that I am a woman."
- That would be wrong. - That's right.
That would be stressful.
Without long hair, I would look like a man as well.
(Laughing)
What do your friends...
and family say?
I...
What do your friends and family say?
All of them said,
"You won't find a boyfriend or a husband."
I am...
- I am sorry. I'm nervous. - Have some water.
(Talking about marriage made her nervous.)
(Put yourself at ease.)
(She clears her throat.)
They said you wouldn't find a boyfriend.
They said I wouldn't be able to get married.
My husband saw me...
He saw that you are a woman.
He saw my charm.
(She needs more water.)
Your throat is dry...
from telling a lie!
She keeps coughing.
(This is hilarious.)
Why is your throat dry?
- Are you okay? - I am so moved...
that my husband married me.
That's why you are moved.
Let's talk to her husband.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Whose wife gets mistaken for a man?)
He seems like a nice man.
You knew about her worry, right?
Yes.
When the family goes out on the weekend,
- people often whisper about us. - I see.
However, I can't go,
"My wife is a woman."
- That would be strange. - "My wife is a woman."
- That's right. - "My wife is a woman."
(That would be strange.)
One time, we were walking down the street...
when a solicitor approached us.
He said that...
the bar has pretty hostesses.
He thought we were both men and told us to come in for a drink.
That happened once.
Another time,
my wife was at the restroom of a pub...
when she got kissed by a woman.
- By a woman? - By a woman?
- Yes. - Was she a stranger?
Yes.
We were drinking together...
when she went to the restroom.
A woman in another table...
was watching her.
When my wife went to the restroom,
- she kissed her. - She followed her.
My wife told her that she is a woman,
but she didn't believe her.
She ran over to me.
We got so flustered that we paid and left.
You should have ran to your wife and kissed her.
(Do you still not believe her?)
I didn't think to do that.
(I'm sure you were flustered.)
(I was really flustered.)
What about her made you decide...
to marry her?
I was 19 years old...
when I met her at a part-time job.
At first,
I couldn't tell if she was a man or a woman.
Then we got to spend more time together.
I am timid,
but my wife had leadership.
She is outgoing.
- They are a good couple. - I fell for those charms.
She is two years older than me.
(She is a dependable woman.)
You're very capable!
For how long did you date?
We dated for seven years.
She was like an older sister.
At the age of 25,
- I married my 1st love. - You dated for 7 years.
I met her at the age of 19, dated her for 7 years,
and married her at the age of 25.
- Is she your first love? - Yes, she is.
(He took notice...)
(of what's inside her heart.)
Before I met her, I only had two blind dates.
- Is your husband... - You're very capable!
your first love?
You are mistaken.
(She had many boyfriends.)
I shouldn't have assumed.
People make assumptions...
about her.
Didn't you have a hard time because of that...
when you were dating her?
When I was in the army, the senior soldiers said to me,
"Your brother came to see you."
"Go on out."
I knew they were talking about my girlfriend,
but I just said, "Okay."
Had I told them the truth,
they would have made fun of my girlfriend.
That's why I went along with them.
You acted like she was your big brother.
- Yes. - Someone could have gone,
"Why did you kiss your brother?"
I kissed her...
- when no one was looking. - I see.
(It's sad, but funny.)
You kissed her when no one was looking.
My friends asked me,
"Why would you date a woman like her?"
- What? - They said that.
"A woman like her?"
- They judged her looks. - They were young.
They were 21 or 22 years old.
"Why would you care about whom I date?"
"She is the woman I love."
- That's right. - I told them that.
That's cool.
How did your family react?
At first, my mom...
didn't like her looks.
When someone came over, she told my wife to hide somewhere.
Mi Sook must have been upset.
I heard that...
she cried a lot.
I can ignore...
what other people say.
The most upsetting thing happened...
when my eldest daughter was in kindergarten.
She cried and told me not to come...
to her graduation because her friends will tease her.
She told me to grow out my hair.
The same thing still happens with my younger daughter.
When I give her a ride to her school,
she gets off when she is far from school...
so that her friends won't see me.
When I drop her off in front of the school,
she tells me not to lower the window...
because I look like a man.
My goodness.
(You must have been upset.)
Let's meet her daughters.
Hello.
- Hello. - How pretty!
Do you understand your mom's worry?
Yes. When I go out with my mom,
people stare.
When my friends see us,
they ask, "Is he your dad?"
When I tell them that she is my mom,
they become surprised.
They say that I have two dads.
My goodness.
- Children are immature. - They are mischievous.
They say that my mom is a man.
They are straightforward.
I asked her to grow out her hair...
so that she will look prettier.
You could have grown out your hair...
to satisfy your daughter.
Why didn't you do it?
The style doesn't suit me.
Have you tried it? How long was your hair?
I grew it out to be a bit longer than a bob,
but it didn't suit me.
You told your mom not to come to your graduation.
The boys teased me about her...
too much.
I asked her if she can wear a skirt, but she refused.
That's why I asked her not to come back then.
You don't wear a skirt either.
I don't think it will suit me.
- You think you will look awkward. - People will make fun of me.
- I see. Because she feels awkward. - Ever since she was little,
- she wore pants. - You wore pants in the pictures.
(She became withdrawn due to the stress from her looks.)
Have you experienced something similar?
My mom and I were in an elevator the other day.
My mom put on a lot of lotion,
and an old man standing next to us said to me,
"Your father diligently takes care of his skin."
(The old man...)
(dropped a bomb.)
So we all laughed.
They all laughed.
- Have your friends ever teased you? - When she drops you off.
At that time, my mom wasn't wearing makeup. Just a lot of lotion.
(It's like her habit.)
So I was embarrassed by her.
- I told her not to get off the car. - She puts on lotion outside.
What did your friends say?
They asked me, "Is that your dad?"
- They were mistaken. - I told them she was my dad.
(Whatever, I'll just say she's my dad.)
Did you just say she's your dad?
Because it's bothersome to explain?
- Yes. - It's annoying to explain.
When your dad appears, will you introduce him as your mom?
What if you disguise yourself as a woman?
(He's shy.)
(I am smiling, but I feel sad.)
When you hear that, you must feel sad.
I am always sorry that I am not feminine enough.
- You are sorry? - I am so sorry...
to embarrass my girls. It worries me so much.
I want to be girlish,
so I went to an image research lab.
- You tried hard. - Every weekend,
I travelled from Daejeon to Seoul.
I spent 2,500 dollars there.
I went there to build a more feminine image.
What happened? What did 2,500 dollars give you?
At the lab, they told me...
that boyish style suit me.
In the end, they concluded...
that this style suits me.
Did you waste 2,500 dollars? You should've gotten a refund.
I will drop by the place and get a refund later.
Since I am in Seoul.
Girls want her to have long hair...
and to wear feminine clothes.
Do you feel the same, sir?
No, I've seen her when she had long hair.
When she has long hair, she's neither a woman nor a man.
It's even stranger.
It's better to be seen as a man.
What are you saying?
She's neither a man nor a woman. It's weirder.
It's better if she doesn't wear a skirt.
Have you seen her wearing a skirt?
Yes. I have seen it. It's awkward.
I am not used to seeing her in skirt.
(Her husband finds it awkward when she tries to look feminine.)
Actually,
when she's going outside to meet other parents or friends,
she always asks me.
"Can I put on a hat?" "How should I do my makeup?"
"What should I wear?"
When she is meeting other people,
she tries to look more feminine.
But it doesn't concern me at all.
She's my wife, and I love her.
- But she still cares about it... - She still cares about it.
- and struggles. - Right. She wants to look pretty.
It's fine when I am alone. But when I'm meeting his friends,
or when I am visiting the girls' school,
I try to dress up more and look more feminine.
I try to put on thick makeup to look more like a woman.
She doesn't want to look pretty.
- You just want to look like a wife. - Right.
Like a mother.
I get it.
Korea is deeply rooted in Confucianism...
and is very conservative.
As a result, we have a lot of preconceived notions.
Some people are feminine.
Some are not so feminine. We should respect the differences.
But people look at her with such prejudice,
and it must be so tough for her.
I think it must've taken a toll on her self-esteem.
I know that very well.
People think I eat anything because I love eating.
But I am actually a foodie.
- Right. - I am actually a foodie.
You are a glutton too though.
I eat 1. 5 or 2 times more than other people.
- I am not a glutton. - Right.
People think I am not selective about what I eat.
- I am picky. - She's a foodie.
- That's why I identify with her. - You understand her.
After hearing it so many times, my self-esteem became low.
When I was in my early 20s, I had a big surgery.
- I suffered from acromegaly. - Acromegaly?
- Yes. - What is that?
It enlarges your features.
It happens when your growth hormones...
keeps getting secreted when it shouldn't be.
It enlarges your facial features like your nose and your hands.
- They get enlarged. - Yes.
I think that had an effect.
Ji Hye, have you experienced anything like this?
Have you ever been judged because of your appearance?
People think I am really fiesty.
They think I have total control over him.
- But actually, he controls me. - Really?
I can't say anything to him.
(It's as if he can't believe what he just heard.)
Ji Hye.
- Ji Hye. - We need that song.
(It's time for the theme song.)
I think rappers suffer from prejudice too.
Whenever people greet me on the streets...
Usually, when people recognize you, they would just bow lightly.
But they do this to us.
(Come on.)
"What's up, man?"
Really?
- "Hey, brother." - I don't greet people like this.
Do they do this?
Your mouth has to be like this too.
(He pouts for the fans.)
Yes. It's like that.
Some other people came to cheer for her.
When she was younger, she was really pretty.
Whenever my dad took us out,
people only praised her beauty.
That's how pretty she was.
After going through puberty,
she gradually started to look masculine.
That made her become more sensitive...
and rougher. There was a phase.
Because she looks like a man, people would stare at her.
When people stared at her, she said this to them,
"What are you looking at?"
- Right. - That's how sensitive she was.
- She was defending herself. - Right.
(They become serious.)
But now, my sister is...
more worried about my nieces getting their feelings hurt.
- That's what she worries her. - That worries her the most.
Once time, they slept at my place.
My niece had to join a competition the next day.
I lent her my pink t-shirt.
She went to the competition wearing that pink t-shirt,
and my niece told her that she looks so pretty.
She told her to only wear that shirt.
So for months she hasn't...
- She didn't give it back. - returned it to me.
Is that why you came here today?
- She wanted it back. - You want it back.
This problem often arises between sisters.
Why don't you just give it to her?
I want to tell her to keep it.
Thank you.
She earned a t-shirt.
Let's talk to the man next to her.
Don't call that person "the man". That person might be a woman.
- Don't do that. - All right.
You said we should accept the differences.
So why do you just assume that he is a man?
(She's hilarious.)
- What is your relationship to her? - I am a cousin.
- You are her husband's cousin. - Yes.
I've also been her drinking friend for 20 years.
- Drinking friend. - When my cousin...
first introduced her to me,
I thought she looked too much like a man.
But when I got to know her, I realized how charming she is.
- She's charming. - Yes.
- She's very honest. - She's honest.
Sometimes when she drinks,
she uses men's toilet when she's in a hurry.
Because the queue is long in the women's toilet?
- She just goes to the men's toilet. - That's an advantage.
There's something good about it.
The queue is always long at women's toilet.
She deserves to enjoy that perk.
I met Mi Sook a long time ago...
while working at a food making place.
Her nickname is actually Mirror Princess.
She often looks at herself in the mirror.
Wherever she goes, whenever she sits down,
she takes out a small mirror...
and puts on lipstick.
She fixes her base makeup using a cushion compact foundation.
She is actually very feminine.
We can tell.
In terms of personality and many other aspects,
- she is very charming. - Yes.
She is very good to my family and the girls.
She's really good. My parents are unwell.
Even though she has a job, she looks after them.
She's such a girly girl when she cooks too.
She always decorates her food nicely.
She makes hairpins for the girls.
She behaves like a girly girl.
- It's so neat. - It looks delicious.
- It's lovely. - What is that?
- It's neat. - She's got a delicate touch.
- It must be a salad. - What is that?
- Is it yangjangpi? - It's Vietnamese spring roll.
- It's Vietnamese spring roll. - Kids are picky with food.
So she mixed everything.
It's so delicate. Look at that.
- Dried flower. - She's dexterous.
- That's when the girls were young. - She raised them so well.
She dressed them in a lot of princess-like outfits.
I know.
- My goodness. - She raised the girls so well.
(Is she lamenting her misfortune?)
- They were surprised. - They were surprised.
You should just own up to it.
Girls,
what do you think your mother's charms are?
She's funny.
Is she funny?
That's the best.
- How lovely is that? - I agree with my sister.
So I wrote a poem for my mom as a birthday gift.
- A poem. - A poem.
You wrote a poem for your mom.
(She's not pretty.)
Read it aloud for us.
(The audience is stirred up.)
How can you start the poem like that?
She may not be pretty,
buy my mom is amazing and unique.
Her skin isn't that good,
but she tries hard to take care of her skin.
She loves her family and books.
I like my mom the most in this world.
(It was funny in the beginning and ended nicely.)
How did you feel when you received it?
I became so emotional.
I was happy that she knew how much I love...
- my family. - You love books and your family.
Right. That's the best.
It was funny and sad at the same time.
I was touched.
(Giggling)
What was the thing you want to say the most...
on this show?
- I want people to be respectful. - Right.
When I go to the bathroom,
I sometimes get shouted at.
When that happens in the girls' presence,
I feel really sorry to the girls.
Is there something you want to say to your family?
I am sorry for not appearing so feminine.
But girls, I really can't grow my hair.
So please respect my style.
When she goes outside...
and fetches us,
she wears what she wears at home.
I hope she will wear makeup...
and dress nicely when she goes outside.
I think she needs just a little bit of change.
She can tweak her style...
just a little bit.
I think she can get a perm.
People with short hair often get their hair permed.
Okay, Mina.
- I think it's a worry. - Okay.
I don't think it's a worry.
Do you?
I don't think it's a worry.
She might be okay with it,
but her daughters...
are sometimes embarrassed.
I think that would hurt her feelings.
One of our members, Jeong Yeon always...
used to have short hair.
She never wore skirts.
But she tried...
to change.
The girls love you...
for who you are now,
but they want you to try something new.
Are you willing to give it a go?
- Yes. - All right.
Shortly, an expert will give her a makeover.
Her unique style will be kept,
but it will be slightly tweaked.
If you think it's a worry for her,
please press the button.
(Please send us stories about various worries.)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's see how many votes she got.
Please reveal the result.
Let's find out the last digit. Did she get over 100 votes?
(The result is revealed.)
- She got over 100 votes. - She got over 100 votes.
(How many people sympathize with her?)
- 104 votes. - 104 votes.
(She got 104 votes.)
(The makeover with an expert starts.)
(Stylist Yoon Hye Mi)
(While keeping her style, the experts adds her touch.)
(How will she change?)
She's ready now.
Did the expert give her a makeover?
Right.
Don't you think that's too upright?
You should've shot the photo from below.
Why did you compress her?
Let's see how she changed.
- Please come on out. - Welcome back.
No way.
(She's shocked.)
(Her family is shocked too.)
(We introduce you the made-over Mi Sook.)
- No way. - She looks nice.
(Is that really her?)
(She looks confident.)
My goodness. My goodness.
She looks great.
(She puts on sunglasses too.)
(They look the happiest right now.)
Girls.
They are going crazy.
- They are surprised. - The eldest is shocked.
Right?
What do you think about your mom?
I'm not used to her looking like that.
- Of course. - What about the youngest daughter?
She looks beautiful.
Honey,
- can she pull down the window... - She feels awkward.
when she gives you a ride to school?
Yes. Yes.
I am not used to it yet,
but she looks more feminine and lovely.
She's so lovely.
I am so thankful that she made me look so lovely.
When I put on some colors,
my mood got lifted too.
This hairstyle suits you so well.
- This hair. - It suits you so well.
- You should keep this style. - Yes.
Did they prepare this outfit too?
- Yes. - Just take it home.
(Just go home in those clothes.)
(We will cheer for her new change.)
"He Makes My Blood Boil".
Hello.
I am a housewife in her 40s,
whose blood is boiling.
Whenever my husband comes home,
he just sticks to one place and doesn't do anything.
Does he stick to me? No.
He sticks to the sofa...
and doesn't do anything at all.
(He doesn't do anything?)
"Honey, can you change the lightbulb in the bathroom?"
"Okay."
"Honey, can you move the fridge?"
"Okay."
Whenever I ask him to do something,
my blood boils.
Even if weeks, months, even a year passes, everything stays the same.
That's not all.
"I'm hungry. Honey, give me food."
"Give me food."
"Darling, get Daddy a cup of coffee."
"Honey, get Daddy a remote controller."
"Girls, massage my legs."
He uses our 12-year-old and 15-year-old daughters...
and me as his servants.
Please make my lazy husband move.
(Please make my lazy husband move.)
I am curious about what Joon Hyung is like at home.
- What happens when he gets home? - It's...
- It's... - It's the opposite for us.
- What? - What?
I am always on the sofa.
Really? Then...
Every morning, I send kids to school.
I wake up at 8am...
- and fix breakfast for my children. - Goodness.
I need to tie my second daughter's hair...
into a ponytail.
So I tie her hair like this.
So you must sympathize...
with the wife better than your wife does.
- You're right, but... - I wash the dishes all three times.
(I am sorry, darling.)
What do you think, Ji Hyo?
What if your husband was like that?
What if your future husband is like that?
I would hate it so much.
He becomes one with sofa.
Your team lives together.
While some of you are diligent,
some of you must be lazy...
and always lying down.
There are people like that.
(They become very curious.)
- Is it Mina? - It's Jeong Yeon.
It suits her. Does she just lie down on the sofa?
- No, she cleans. - She cleans.
- Yes. - She cleans.
Who loves to lie down then?
- They can't say it. - Right.
(She looks away.)
All right. Please bring her out.
(Who is worried about her lazy husband?)
(Park Mi Ae)
Does he really become one with the sofa and not move?
Yes. Nothing at all.
He doesn't do anything.
Just the thought of it must blow her mind.
Thinking about it makes her upset.
I've been living with him for nearly 20 years.
When he comes home,
he just eats and sleeps.
Even when it's his day off, he eats and sleeps.
When he goes to a bathroom,
I wait for him to finish...
so that we can talk.
But he doesn't come out.
He doesn't come out even after 30 minutes.
- What? - When he enters the bathroom?
Then I hear something dropping.
When I opened the door and looked, he was sleeping.
It was the sound of toilet paper falling.
(He was sleeping.)
Did he fall asleep while doing his business?
- Or did he go in there to sleep? - He just...
He just sits there and sleeps.
(Is there someone worse than my husband?)
When are you the most frustrated?
My husband delays everything.
It's not that I ask him for help in doing household chores.
There are some things at home...
that require a man's strength.
- Right. Like moving furniture. - Yes.
When we just got married,
I asked him to move furniture.
- He said, "Wait." - "Wait."
"Let's move them tomorrow." That was it.
In the end, I moved them alone in one early morning.
- I moved all the furniture. - In the early morning?
I even...
- moved a refrigerator alone. - A refrigerator?
- You can't move that alone. - Our refrigerator broke.
So we bought a new one.
The delivery men forgot to take down the old refrigerator.
I said to him, "Honey, let's move this together."
I asked him.
He said, "I am tired today. Let's do it tomorrow."
- 2 weeks passed like that. - 2 weeks.
In the end, I went to a moving company...
- And hired men. - and paid them to take it.
- What took the longest time? - The longest time?
- Yes, what is it? - The dining table.
- The dining table? - I asked him to tighten the screws.
I told him so many times.
He said he couldn't do it with regular screwdriver.
- Right. You need the hexagon one. - The hexagon one.
When I told him to bring it, he said, "I'll bring it tomorrow."
- "I will bring it tomorrow." - He said that.
How long did he delay it for?
- Did that last a year? - A year.
A year?
(That's crazy.)
He's so persistent.
You must've talked to him several times before coming here.
We talked a lot.
I said to him, "They say married couples need to talk a lot."
- Right. - "They say they should talk..."
"for at least 30 minutes a day. Let's try that."
When I begin to talk to him, he sits like this.
(He doesn't pay attention.)
- He just stays quiet. - He doesn't pay attention.
- He just stayed like that. - He doesn't pay attention.
Just tell him you would get tens of dogs...
if he wouldn't talk to you.
You should've told him that.
I told my children.
I told them that I need a dog.
- Get one from them. - Get one.
Give her one.
She can adopt one.
- She can adopt one. - She can adopt a dog.
I will give her my business card.
- Get their number. - Get their business card.
She said she'd give her a business card.
(That's how lonely I am.)
Let's hurry and meet her husband.
Hello.
(Who is her lazy husband who hates to move?)
You've heard everything she said.
Yes. Everything my wife says is true.
Do you literally not do anything at home?
No. I'm too lazy.
Do you even have the desire to help her?
Even if I do feel like it, it's not that easy.
No, he's lying.
You didn't tighten the table screw for a year.
I kept delaying it because I was lazy.
- You put it off for a year? - That's amazing.
Apparently, he always says...
that at home too.
Yes. I wrote a memorandum a few times before.
"A memorandum?"
He might be a mastermind in some way.
In martial arts, someone who laughs like him...
is the strongest.
He's really amazing.
You order your children and wife. Why do you keep ordering them?
Because I'm lazy.
(He said the same thing three times.)
That laziness.
How did you come here when you're so lazy?
I'm having auditory hallucinations.
Because you came to pick me up.
(I'm lazy, but you came to pick me up.)
Right. We send the car.
- Someone picked him up. - Yes.
Would you have come if we told you to come on your own?
Yes. I would've thought about it.
- Because he's lazy. - Then he wouldn't have come.
My children are older now.
They used to be obedient when they were young.
Now that they're big, we don't get to see each other that much.
I want to see them as much as I can.
- To see them? - That's why I make them do errands.
- That's nonsense. - That's nonsense?
When I get him what he wants, he should stop there.
But he orders again.
(That's not the end.)
Right away.
So children don't like it obviously.
It's not just once or twice.
Excuse me, but his teeth...
It's from an accident.
- Is he getting treated? - Yes.
- That's why he's missing teeth. - Yes.
I thought your wife pulled them out...
when you were sleeping because you never move and keep talking.
(Laughing)
"If you aren't going to talk, you don't need teeth."
You see...
You may think he's lazy,
but you may have a lot of work.
I work at a construction site.
I work in demolition.
- That requires a lot of strength. - Yes.
- I wake up 4am in the morning. - Goodness.
I get to work by 4:30am.
When I'm home after work, it's 8 or 9pm.
You work for over 10 hours.
Then he has no choice but to sleep.
- It's really tiring. - Do you understand him then?
I think his job requires a lot of energy.
No, I don't understand him at all.
I think it's his weight.
He didn't have a belly before we got married.
- He used to do taekwondo. - Really?
He was an athlete.
An athlete?
- He weighs over 100kg now. - He's over 100kg.
We have a picture of him before he gained weight.
(How was he before gaining weight?)
- How handsome. - He's right in the center.
He looks very healthy.
That's a strong young man.
He started to show signs.
He gained some weight when he got married.
- When I had a child, - When you were pregnant.
I went to the OB-GYN.
My hair was shorter than this.
We both wore caps.
Was he mistaken? No way.
Come on.
He was dozing off in the waiting room.
So I kept my head down too.
Then the nurse...
called my name and took my husband.
(The nurse mistook her husband with a fat belly for a pregnant woman.)
That's awesome.
- Really? - That's awesome.
His wife was mistaken as him, and he was mistaken to be her.
- The stories are related today. - Many things happened today.
According to your wife, it sounds like you sleep a lot.
Yes. My sister sent a story to another broadcasting station...
because I sleep so much.
They filmed it before.
- I was tested for hypnolepsy. - Right.
- It's not hypnolepsy. - That's a relief.
Normally it takes 20 to 45 minutes...
for people to fall asleep,
but it takes me 45 seconds or so.
That's how fast I fall asleep.
- You fall asleep in 45 seconds? - Yes.
When my kids asked him to read a book,
he couldn't even finish the first page.
He barely passed the first page.
Were you the same even before gaining weight?
Yes, when I decide to sleep,
- I... - You fall asleep in 45 seconds?
- Yes. - So, when you decide to sleep,
you can sleep.
When I sit in the passenger seat,
and my employee is driving.
I fall asleep after a few words.
I'm sorry, but can you do that here?
Can you do it in the center?
It might be too hard in the center.
Is it really possible?
- Yes, if I make up my mind. - Goodness.
Let's check if he can do that in 45 seconds.
How do you fall asleep in 45 seconds?
You can't do that when there are so many people, can you?
- You can if you decide to, right? - Yes.
Can you try please?
I really can't believe it.
I understand Yeong Ja...
because even though I stop her, I really want to see it.
I'm serious.
You can sleep after this question.
Did you ever get in trouble due to too much sleep?
I was smoking at home before I had kids.
- Before they were born? - Before they were born.
I fell asleep with the cigarette in my mouth.
(Shocked)
- That's amazing. - With the cigarette in your mouth?
- That's dangerous. - The winter blanket caught on fire,
and we almost had a fire in the house.
The cigarette fell on his stomach, and he got burned.
That probably woke him up.
"Gosh, it's hot."
- No, he doesn't wake up. - No?
He just twitches and goes back to sleep.
(His sleep overcomes the pain.)
Because he's in a deep sleep.
That's really surprising.
Did he fall asleep reading for your second child?
Did that ever happen with your first child?
He used to take her out in a stroller.
- In a stroller. - Yes.
He sat down on the bench for a second and dozed off.
- My goodness. - Then my child stood up,
and the stroller fell down.
That happened three times.
Luckily, she wasn't hurt or anything.
That's a relief.
That is okay, but...
(Is he really asleep?)
(A moment ago)
When we had the first child...
(His eyes were open.)
(He closes the shutter.)
(Twitching)
He used to take her out in a stroller.
(He accomplishes what is very difficult.)
That is okay, but when we had our second child,
she was hospitalized even before she turned one.
Suddenly it was very noisy.
I went to check.
He said he put the kid on his stomach.
Then he fell asleep, so the child slipped off to the ground.
My goodness.
Does he fall asleep while eating?
He eats really well.
Does he wake up when the meal is ready?
Even on his off days, he has meals on time.
He wakes up to have a meal in those hours.
Then he lies down again.
- He probably can't sleep here. - No.
- He's sleeping. - Is he sleeping?
Is he really sleeping?
- Sir. - Check yourself.
(He doesn't move.)
(Wake up, Dad.)
- He was having a light sleep. - A light sleep.
(He keeps falling asleep everywhere.)
Were you sleeping? Were you able to sleep here?
I fell asleep for a second.
- You fell asleep for a second? - Yes.
People never believe me.
It must be genetic. My father-in-law was the same.
No matter how noisy it is,
he still sleeps.
But my husband is worse.
What's the longest hours you slept?
When I arrived home after work, I fell asleep in the car...
as I was getting ready to go in, and I slept for two days.
(He slept for two days.)
- Two days? - In the car?
Then your wife would check on you or call you.
No,
he never comes home if he parks in front of the house.
- Do you always wake him up? - I always go down...
and get mad at him.
He parks far away now.
Then I have to search the whole town.
- But he's not in the town. - Then where is he?
- I thought he got into an accident. - Of course.
I called him more than 500 times.
Then he called me.
- He woke up. - "I'm sorry."
"I'm on the road. I fell asleep."
- For two days? - Yes.
He didn't even go to the restroom?
He woke up because he was hungry.
That's amazing.
Did you really wake up because you were hungry?
Yes.
- You must be worried. - Right.
Your daughters are here too. Let's hear from them.
Do you understand your mom's worry?
Yes, I understand her so much.
My dad doesn't do anything at home.
If he senses that my mom is going to make him do something,
he says he has to get something from his car and runs away.
Apparently, he orders you a lot.
Yes, he's always lying down saying, "Get me water."
"Get me medicine."
He calls me so much that I wish I didn't have a name.
Does he only order you around when you also have a sister?
Yes, because she's cute.
He makes me do more things.
(What's she talking about?)
(The real sisters' serious look)
I hate massaging his legs the most.
His legs are strong and firm like a radish.
My hands hurt every time I massage him.
That makes sense. Then you can tell him...
- you don't want to and refuse. - I massage his legs...
because he does tough work.
He works hard to make money.
So I think that's the least I should do to help him.
- How sweet. - My goodness.
- That's why I do it. - She says only sweet things.
Oldest daughter, you should learn from her...
how to please others with words.
(You can do it if you try.)
You could speak up when you're not happy with something.
I can't because I'm afraid...
something bad might happen if I complain.
What do you mean by something bad might happen?
- Do bad things happen? - If I get angry at my dad,
my mom and dad start fighting.
- Oh, no. - So...
I'm worried they might get divorced.
I once stopped them fighting.
And when they fight,
my dad swears too.
(My dad swears.)
- What? - In front of you and your sister?
Yes. So my sister...
covered my ears, so I didn't have to hear it.
Gosh. It's bad enough to raise your voice...
while fighting in front of the kids.
But you even swear, sir?
She woke me up when I was about to fall asleep.
So I was annoyed and upset.
I remember that we fought a few times like that.
- That's not true. - She says it's not true.
I never swear at my children.
He says he never does that.
He just said swear words while talking to himself.
When my daughters and I are in the bedroom,
he says things like, "Am I your enemy or something?"
"Fine. You guys have fun without me."
He swears at us.
(The couple raises their voices and swears at each other.)
(Mom and Dad, please don't fight.)
If your husband's behavior...
continues like this without changing,
how would you feel?
I have considered divorcing him.
(I have considered divorcing him.)
I once got furious,
- "I can't put up with you anymore." - I ran away from home.
- "I'll leave home." - I left home.
But my kids called me only half a day later.
- Your kids called you? - They cried and asked where I was.
"Mom, I'm hungry. I miss you."
- That broke my heart. - Gosh.
- Of course. - So I went back home.
(She decided to divorce her husband because of his indifference.)
(But she went back home for her daughters.)
I felt the most disappointed...
- when I was sick. - I understand.
I had a squeezing pain in my stomach at night.
I woke him up while holding my stomach.
But he wouldn't wake up.
I barely managed to take a taxi and went to a hospital.
- Alone? - Yes.
- To the emergency room at night? - So...
I called him about 50 times at the hospital.
- They need your family's consent. - Right.
He came to the hospital in the end, but he said,
"What's the problem?"
(He said it indifferently.)
- That's what he said. - He was supposed to be worried.
(How could he say such a thing?)
To be honest, I can understand you.
I know you must be tired at home, and I feel sorry for you.
But your wife and children still need you...
to be the reliable head of the family...
at least at important moments.
When your wife tries to have a conversation with you,
why do you refuse it?
Did she do something to upset you?
Yes. When we finish our dinner,
as if they were waiting for the moment,
they go back to their own rooms in an instant.
They don't even care about me.
I feel like I'm left out.
It happened a few times.
I think my dad is the one who doesn't care about us.
Not long ago,
I asked him, "Dad, do you know what grade and class I'm in?"
He said he didn't know.
So I asked, "Dad, then do you know how old I am?"
He said, "8th or 9th grade." He wasn't sure.
- I was... - Ask him again now.
Dad, do you know how old I am?
You're 16.
(Disappointed)
I'm 15.
- He was wrong. - He said she was 16.
- He said she was 16. - He said she was 16.
(He disappointed her once again.)
You've heard your wife saying...
she might give up on this marriage if you don't fix your problem.
What do you think?
While listening to what my wife...
and my children said,
a lot of thoughts came to my mind.
As long as you can change...
I'm sorry to my wife.
I'll change little by little.
When I come home after work,
I'll wash dishes if there are dishes to wash...
and do laundry if there are clothes to wash.
As a man, I will do household chores...
before anyone asks me to do.
What he just said...
surprised his daughters.
They're looking at him.
Is what he said what you want from him? Or...
What is it you really want from him?
I want him to be a good father to our children...
and a good husband...
- whom I can rely on... - A reliable husband.
and someone I can trust to me.
Ma'am, can you do me a favor? I think you should...
change your tone of voice. The way you speak makes me sleepy.
- In fact... - Your husband must fall asleep.
"Whenever you speak to me..."
- Your voice makes me sleepy. - I almost dozed off several times.
- You should change your tone. - You should change too.
"Honey, eat no more than one bowl of rice"
"And then get up right away and run around a track twice."
You'd make a perfect wife. All you need to do is get married.
(She knows more than anyone else when it comes to theory.)
It's too late. Introduce me to a man about your father's age at least.
A man about my dad's age.
(Dong Yeob is taken aback.)
Before we wrap up, please say a word...
to your wife and children as the head of the family.
You trusted me and followed me at first.
But I developed bad habits...
as time went by.
I'm sorry I didn't take good care of you.
I'll be a husband whom you can rely on and trust...
and a confident father to our children.
I'll try to be better.
Mi Ae, I love you.
(Mi Ae, I love you.)
(She's holding back a smile.)
- Sir. - She seemed to feel awkward.
(Let's be happy together.)
Honey.
I love you.
(I can't believe my mom said that.)
- Look at him. - Are you happy?
He doesn't know what to do. Are you happy?
Are you happy?
I am very happy.
"I am very happy."
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
I think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry too.
I think his family should try to understand him.
If you go to work at 4am and come home at 8pm,
who wouldn't be sleepy?
The fact that they cornered him because of that...
could be that they don't respect him enough.
Thank you.
I think it's a worry too.
Of course, I understand what Joon Hyung said.
But only when you fulfill your responsibilities,
you can be a good father and husband.
He knows how women feel.
I almost fell for you.
You heard her, right? Be careful.
(Run, HANHAE!)
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Now, please show us the result.
(The result)
"He Makes My Blood Boil".
She'll win if she gets 173 votes.
How many votes did she get?
153 votes. That's a lot.
(153 votes)
As a result, "Uncomfortable Cohabitation"...
is this week's winner.
Congratulations.
The winner will receive prize money.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
(Tahiti in French Polynesia)
(Director Lee Ha Nee)
(Assistant Director Park Jin Joo)
(Finder Seong Yeol of INFINITE)
(Photographer L of INFINITE)
(And)
(Humpback whale)
(The journey of making an animal documentary)
(Animal Privacy)
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